Racing to the airport in bumper-to-bumper traffic, I thought driving in L.A was crazy. The 101 was jam-packed, and we were running an hour later than we wanted to make our 11a.m. flight to Chicago. We made it. Barely. As soon as we arrived at LAX, we leapt out of our friend’s minivan, blew kisses to her three adorable girls, and ran to check our bags. ‘It always helps to ask’ seems to be my motto lately, as it saved us from missing our flight when I checked with the baggage handlers to see if we really needed to wait in line behind all those other people. It turned out we didn’t, and we were ushered straight toward security, putting us on the plane just before the final boarding call.
Four hours later, we sat in the Chicago/O’Hare Airport Chili’s and tried to eat one last hamburger before leaving for the Land of No Beef. We were so tired though, that I think the margarita got the most attention, and it wasn’t long before we were back in the air. We spent the first two hours watching Sex and the City 2, and then it was lights out (or at least an attempt at such) for the next 12 hours or so. Every time I woke up I thought, maybe I should do something- read, write, watch another movie, or play a game- but I could barely see straight, and my head would swim at the thought of turning on the overhead light, and then I would fall back against the pillow for another two-hour ‘nap’. I dreamt of my sister who was talking about books instead, which was some of the best comfort I could hope for. Going on three hours sleep from the night before, there was no way my book or my blog were going to get any attention.
Leaving LA in the morning and then back in the air by early evening, we watched the sun throughout the day until it set. Then a few hours later, while somewhere over Santa’s Workshop or Greenland, we watched the sun rise and then set again shortly before we touched down in New Delhi. Fat stripes of orange, maroon, and purple replaced the brightness of the sun as it fell, and the first star of the night hovered over the wing of the plane, while we both hung suspended under the Delhi moon.
It seems impossible now that we’ve only been here less than 48 hours. (I actually had to ask No.1 to count back with me because I really didn’t think I could be right.) Yesterday feels like sometime last week. In the small amount of time we’ve been here, No. 1 has had a SPECT scan, an ECG, an abdominal echogram (sp?), a urine test, two blood tests, a chest X-RAY, two physical therapy appointments, several meetings with his new doctors to discuss anything and everything regarding his diagnosis, symptoms, and treatments, and THREE stem cell injections. Anyone want to take a guess at how much time, money, and aggravation it would have taken to get all of that done in the States? A lot. On all counts. I promise. Just making an appointment for some of the tests we’ve received would have taken MONTHS! And your results? At home you might get them in a few weeks. Maybe. Not here… Done and done.
At this point we’re both completely wiped. No. 1 was so tired tonight after a walk around the neighborhood and his third injection, that he passed out before he was able to eat. His food was still waiting for him when he woke up, but he was more excited about the walk he had taken around Delhi in his dreams. In one, he said, he could remember very distinct music, and the same unknown man showed up twice- once as a diner in a restaurant, listening to my husband describe his experiences here, and again later as a street musician who turned around to look right at No. 1 as he approached.
Honestly, I am surprised that No. 1 didn’t dream about honking horns. They never stop here but for a few hours in the middle of the night, when there aren’t enough vehicles on the road for any two to have to pass each other and announce their positions. It is so unlike it is at home. Here there seem to almost no rules of the road. It’s every man for himself, and yet there seem to be very few accidents. This may be because no one can move fast enough to create much of a mess when two cars do collide. But unlike Los Angeles, the cars actually do get to move, and no one ever sits for long. The idea that a vehicle would stay in something as silly as a painted lane is ludicrous. They are merely a suggestion, but you are welcome to make any move you’d like to bring you a little bit closer to your destination. Honking is a required part of letting people know where you are in relation to them and where it is you are likely to go next. Instead of the grand FU we intend when we honk at home, here it is more a friendly greeting, a quick “Here I am! Coming through!” for those around you. It’s a courtesy more than a warning, and some vehicles even have the words ‘Honk Please’ painted brightly on their backs- so different from the warnings of death we see pasted on the back of every big rig back home. (You know, the ones printed with the words “Passing Side” and “Suicide”?) Intersections are hilarious, and I’ll try to get a video at some point during the trip because I am pretty sure any description I give here will not do them any justice. On our walk today, crossing the street was not at all unlike playing a live version of Frogger, but we figured, if they don’t hit each other, it’s unlikely they’ll hit us. So, as Elizabeth Gilbert loves to say, Attraversiamo! (Let’s cross over!) Because, like a lot of things here, driving with your horn blaring is just another example of the ordered chaos that seems to exist everywhere. But somehow, it works. I just thank the moon and the stars above that, while we’re trying to sleep at least, so do ear plugs. 😉